Boys are taught to be strong, hard-working, and dependable amongst other qualities, yet they are sometimes told that dance—and specifically, ballet—is not for them.

But why?

The structure the art of dance provides, especially in a classroom setting, teaches qualities beyond just the aforementioned, from the very first step inside the dance studio. Qualities that have an immeasurable impact on self-confidence, athleticism and community particularly for young kids and teens.

For me, Ballet training through the years has gifted me qualities that I don’t take for granted and am proud to possess.

Here’s what else ballet has taught me:

Ballet training teaches dedication, and that it takes commitment and hard work to go from good to great. To succeed, you’ll need to adopt self-discipline as well as work well with others. It’s not always about the details, but the big picture.

Ballet is not just tutus and pointe shoes, it’s athletic jumps and supportive partnering. In the artform males are called upon to lift female dancers high in the air and even carry them around the stage, a feat that takes great strength.

Grace is a quality synonymous with our art, but it’s often misinterpreted: showing grace isn’t just about elegance, but being polite, courteous and respectful.

It’s no secret boys training in ballet is somewhat of a rarity in the U.S. It’s a confusing truth that’s often due to parents limiting a child’s potential based on societal ideologies that are baseless and stereotypical. I implore everyone to do better and judge less. The world will be a better place for it.

 

Nathan Bland
Owner, Director
Berks Ballet Theatre Conservatory of Dance